Queens of Intimacy Transformational Coaching
Cultivate Desire, Safety & Deep Devotion
Private intimacy coaching for high-achieving individuals and couples who crave a relationship that feels alive, emotionally safe, and erotically magnetic—without sacrificing ambition or autonomy.
Limited 1:1 spots · Discreet, trauma-informed, deeply personalized support
Is this for you?
For the woman or couple who "has it all"—except the intimacy you quietly ache for.
You are used to excellence. You lead, build, and hold so much for others. Yet behind the polished life, you may be navigating:
- A relationship that looks good from the outside but feels distant, transactional, or on edge.
- Desire that has gone quiet after years together, children, or burnout.
- Difficulty receiving—pleasure, support, devotion—without guilt or overthinking.
- Feeling powerful in your work, but small, frozen, or confused in intimacy.
- Repeating patterns in love that you can intellectually name, but can’t seem to shift in your body.
Veloura is where we tend to the part of you that wants to feel chosen, cherished, and fully expressed—in the bedroom and far beyond it.
Imagine if…
You trusted your body. You felt at home in your own sensuality. You knew how to ask for what you want—and actually receive it—without drama, shutdown, or performance.
This is the inner work we do together: nervous system, desire, boundaries, communication, and embodied erotic intelligence—woven into a coaching container that honors your privacy, pace, and power.
Format Private 1:1 or couples coaching via secure video, with messaging support between sessions.
Clients Discerning, growth-oriented individuals & couples of all orientations and relationship structures.
What becomes possible
From performing at love to feeling profoundly met in it.
Intimacy coaching is not about becoming "better" for someone else—it’s about becoming more deeply attuned to yourself, so you can love and be loved from a grounded, sovereign place.
Emotional safety you can relax into
Learn to recognize, name, and regulate your nervous system, so conflict and vulnerability no longer feel like a threat but an opening to deeper connection.
Desire that feels alive again
Rebuild eroticism with nuance: understanding how your unique body, history, hormones, and psyche relate to pleasure—and what actually turns you on now, not five years ago.
Communication that actually lands
Practice scripts, rituals, and relational skills so you can talk about needs, sex, and boundaries in ways that invite your partner closer instead of pushing them away.
The veloura approach
A discreet, deeply held container designed for real transformation.
This is not prescriptive homework or generic advice. We move at the pace of your nervous system, integrating somatic work, attachment patterns, erotic education, and ritual.
Sessions are held via encrypted video, with a strong emphasis on consent, boundaries, and integrating any trauma history with care. You will never be asked to do anything that your body says no to.
Ethics & training You’re working with a practitioner grounded in trauma-informed care, ongoing supervision, and rigorous boundaries around confidentiality and scope of practice.
Discretion Your name, story, and details of our work remain confidential. You may choose to attend sessions solo, even when working on a relationship dynamic.
How we’ll work together
Step 1
Private consult
A 45-minute conversation to understand your desires, history, and what feels tender. We’ll clarify whether intimacy coaching is the right modality and outline a bespoke plan.
Step 2
Curated coaching series
We meet bi-weekly or weekly for 3–6 months. Between sessions you’ll have gentle practices, check-ins, and optional messaging support to anchor the work in your real life.
Step 3
Integration & devotion
We anchor new patterns in your body and relationship, create bespoke rituals, and define how you want to continue tending to intimacy long after our formal work ends.
Meet your coach
Intimacy is an art—and a nervous system skill.
I work at the intersection of somatic healing, erotic education, and high-performance coaching. My clients are founders, leaders, creatives, and couples who are used to operating at 120%—and are ready to feel that same aliveness in their intimate lives.
My background includes training in somatic attachment repair, trauma-informed facilitation, consent frameworks, and tantra-inspired intimacy practices that are grounded in ethics—not performance or spiritual bypassing.
- Trauma-informed, LGBTQIA+ affirming, and kink-aware.
- Comfortable working with non-traditional relationship structures.
- Rooted in science and soul: nervous system work, attachment, myth, and ritual.
- Committed to anti-shame, pro-choice, body-honoring spaces.
You bring your story. I bring a fiercely compassionate mirror, a regulated nervous system, and tools that honor your pace, your boundaries, and your longing.
Client words
“The work we did together changed every room I walk into—especially my bedroom.”
Names and identifying details are changed for confidentiality, but the transformations are very real.
“We were on the brink of becoming polite roommates. Within months, we were having honest conversations we’d avoided for years—and I wanted to reach for him again. The desire came back, but more importantly, so did trust.”
— A., married 9 years
“As a founder, I’m used to being in control. In this work I finally had somewhere to fall apart and be held. I now feel more honest, less avoidant, and, unexpectedly, more creative in my company too.”
— L., serial entrepreneur
“I carried a lot of shame from past experiences. For the first time, I felt like nothing about my story was ‘too much’. I left not only with better sex, but with a kinder relationship to my own body.”
— J., single, mid-30s
Investment
Private, high-touch support with limited openings each quarter.
Most clients work together for a minimum of three months. Exact investment depends on whether we’re working individually or as a couple, and the level of between-session support you desire.
You’ll receive clear pricing and package options during your consultation. There is never any pressure to decide on the spot.
Current starting rates
- 1:1 packages from $X,XXX for three months.
- Couples packages from $X,XXX for three months.
- Bespoke VIP retreats and intensives available by application.
Exact fees and payment options will be shared during your consultation, tailored to your needs and capacity.
Begin here
Apply for a private consultation.
This call is a spacious, pressure-free conversation where we’ll explore what’s happening in your intimate world, what you desire instead, and whether I’m the right person to support you.
- 45 minutes via secure video.
- No on-camera nudity, ever.
- You’re welcome solo or with your partner.
- All genders, orientations, and structures welcome.
You’ll receive a brief intake form after submitting this application so we can make the most of our time together.
Confidential application
Share a few details below and my team will be in touch within 2 business days with next steps and a scheduling link.
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Questions, answered
Intimacy coaching, demystified.
If you’re new to this kind of work, it’s natural to have questions. A few of the most common are below—your consultation is the space to ask anything else.
Is this sex therapy?
No. Intimacy coaching is educational and future-focused, and does not diagnose or treat mental health conditions. While we may talk about your history, the work centers on building new skills, patterns, and experiences in the present. If I ever believe you’d be better supported by a licensed therapist, I will share that transparently and, when possible, offer referrals.
Will we ever be naked on camera?
No. All sessions are fully clothed, conversational, and consent-based. We may include guided somatic exercises (like breath, movement, or self-touch practices), but these are always optional and can be adapted to what feels safe for your body and context.
Do you work with couples who are on the brink of separation?
Yes, and it depends. If there is active abuse, untreated addiction, or a lack of basic safety, I will likely recommend more specialized support first. If you are two people who still want to explore what’s possible together, intimacy coaching can be a powerful, clarifying space—whether you ultimately choose to deepen or consciously uncouple.
What if my partner doesn’t want to join?
You can absolutely begin this work solo. Shifting your own patterns often changes the entire relational dynamic. If and when your partner is ready, we can explore inviting them into select sessions or transitioning to a couples container.
I feel ashamed even asking for this. Is that normal?
Completely. We live in a culture that gives you endless information about how to succeed at work, and almost none about how to love, be loved, or experience pleasure in an integrated way. Shame is often a sign you’re touching something that deeply matters. You don’t have to carry it alone.
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